Join me Thursday October 1st for a FREE – Kaching!$ Community Call. Topic: The Comparison Trap

I’m thrilled to be this month’s guest expert for Michele PW’s Kaching Community Calls.  The Call is on Thursday October 1st at 12 PM Pacific/3 PM Eastern and it’s FREE when you register at kachingcalls.com

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Call Topic: Discover How To Stop The Knee-Jerk Reaction of Comparing And Copying So You Can Create Success Online (Your Way) With Authenticity And Confidence!

Sometimes we look on with pure fascination – absolutely amazed by the seemingly effortless success the expert is creating. Other times though, we ask this question out of frustration. Watching and wondering HOW can I create that kind of success too? And all too often are left hanging without the foggiest idea where or how to even start.

Have you ever noticed or experienced what often happens next?

“How Does She Do It?” is a question we’ve all wanted the answer to at one time or another and each time we ask it, or think it we risk falling into what I call “the comparison trap!” It’s that knee-jerk reaction to compare yourself to the expert.

Find out:

  • What is the comparison trap and how can you bounce back fast if you fall into it
  • The “UnBlueprint Philosophy” to modeling success
  • The one shift that removes struggle and makes creating success effortless and joyful
  • Top 5 challenges women in business online are facing and how you can navigate them without struggle

Clarity From My Closet Conundrum…

closetI spent the better part of this morning staring into the depths of my closet trying to decide what on earth I would wear to present a keynote for a business networking event this coming week…

Several hundred business professionals expected to attend with me and my “Curious Case of Elmer Letterman” presentation as the big draw. (eek!)

After some time scrutinizing every piece of clothing I own I thought “Hey, what a great reason to buy a new suit!”  But then, I had another thought sneak up behind it…

“A business suit is not authentic for you AND you don’t feel comfortable wearing one.”

The voice was dead on and I realized immediately that it was not my inner critic speaking to me, this was my authentic voice. (cool right!)

My original reaction to my “what to wear” dilemma was that I needed to wear a suit. It fit’s the occasion and common advice is to dress to suit the occasion right. But…

Now I’m not saying I was thinking about wearing jeans and a t-shirt but,  if that was authentic to me and if supported my authentic business identity – why the hell not?!

So, what I’m trying to say is… I caught myself again.

I caught myself trying to please others rather than be myself.

I’m still not sure what exactly I’ll wear to the event but I do know it’s NOT going to be a business suit.

I’ll keep you posted ;)

~ Gina xo