I’m thrilled to be this month’s guest expert for Michele PW’s Kaching Community Calls. The Call is on Thursday October 1st at 12 PM Pacific/3 PM Eastern and it’s FREE when you register at kachingcalls.com
Call Topic: Discover How To Stop The Knee-Jerk Reaction of Comparing And Copying So You Can Create Success Online (Your Way) With Authenticity And Confidence!
Sometimes we look on with pure fascination – absolutely amazed by the seemingly effortless success the expert is creating. Other times though, we ask this question out of frustration. Watching and wondering HOW can I create that kind of success too? And all too often are left hanging without the foggiest idea where or how to even start.
Have you ever noticed or experienced what often happens next?
“How Does She Do It?” is a question we’ve all wanted the answer to at one time or another and each time we ask it, or think it we risk falling into what I call “the comparison trap!” It’s that knee-jerk reaction to compare yourself to the expert.
Find out:
- What is the comparison trap and how can you bounce back fast if you fall into it
- The “UnBlueprint Philosophy” to modeling success
- The one shift that removes struggle and makes creating success effortless and joyful
- Top 5 challenges women in business online are facing and how you can navigate them without struggle
Hi Gina, this call sounds fantastic! I definitely fall into the comparison trap by watching others and wondering “how does she do it?” It makes me feel scared sometimes like I have so much to do and figure out, that maybe I’ll never reach their level of success. Talk about discouraging. I can’t wait to hear your advice.
Cara
Hi Cara (you have the same name/spelling as my daughter), I’m so glad you’re looking forward to the call.
Most of us have heard of or received the advice to model success… i.e. find someone who’s successful at what you want to do and then do what they do and you’ll be successful too. In fact, I can think of a few popular quotes to that effect. The problem is, it’s only half true. Without the HOW, we’re left to figure out how to model success on our own and more often than not that leads to copying or trying to be like the other person. Not only does our authenticity get derailed it can be extremely damaging to our confidence.
You’ll likely relate to my unBlueprint philosophy. It’s not that blueprints are bad – you just need to know HOW to leverage them.
~ Gina xo